Begin a relationship or marriage Find out about the benefits you get if you begin a new relationship. Have a relationship or marriage end Find out how your benefits change if your relationship ends. Merge families Learn about the benefits you get if your families merge. Have or adopt a child Learn about the benefits you get if you have or adopt a child. Have shared care of your child Find out about the benefits you can get if you share the care of a child. Have a child turn 21 Learn how your benefits may change if you have a child turn 21. Have a resident family member or recognised other person move out Learn how your benefits may change if a resident family member or recognised other person moves out. Have a resident family member move back home Learn how your benefits may change if one of your family members moves back home. Have a resident family member or recognised other person die Learn how your benefits may change if a resident family member or recognised other person dies.